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Over 20 years of experience working with adults, couples, teens and families to rebuild lives left broken from the aftermath of addiction. Using an eclectic approach involving motivation, encouragement, reality and compassion. I build a safe, trusting environment enabling individuals to embrace forgiveness, empowerment and hope which is the fuel for change. I often see how negative behaviors are used to cope with the stress of life and responsibilities, those behaviors become habitual, and then addictive. Dependency counseling helps to identify those habitual or addictive behaviors. The treatment process is a creative strategic plan to identify healthy skills buried within, while also creating new strength to handle unexpected challenges we will encounter tomorrow. I believe we create our own cure for the disease of addiction through the humble process of learning and implementing positive changes. If we can incorporate specific recovery tools into our lifestyle it will create a buffer to protect us from repeating the traumatic mistakes from our past. Since addictions also effects family and loved ones, it is often important to include those relationships in counseling. Without realizing it, loved ones can enable the addictive behaviors and foster environments for relapse. Everyone is affected by addictions, creating depression, anger, resentments, impulsive and compulsive behaviors to name just a few, which is why it is critical that everyone involved is educated as a team to rebuild a healthy positive environment. I believe anyone who is willing has the ability to change regardless of how many times you have failed in the past. I never give up hoping that this time will be the day things finally start to fall into place and I'll be there waiting for that day to come.

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Crazy Town USA

I was laughing with a friend trying to encourage her during a difficult issue she was having with a loved one. There was a breakdown in communication where the translation of intentions was completely twisted and deformed into the ugliest form of purpose. I chuckled softly despite her apprehensio...
Emotional Wastelands...

Emotional Wastelands…. I remember watching one of the many post-apocalyptic stories on TV where Denzel Washington was garbed in a gas mask and heavy fatigues. He sat motionless barely breathing as radioactive ash fell softly from the muddy sky. He was hunting during the day but you really ...
Chemo for Christmas

I woke up this morning feeling a little melancholy reminiscing on Christmas past. Like the scrooge I see flashes of yesterday from when I was a child thrilled with the prospect of getting G.I. Joe with the Kung-Fu grip or the new Bionic Man with telescopic vision or Batman. I still walk down the ...
A World Ripped Asunder....

I really didn't want to write about the nightmare that unfolded in a small classroom of innocent 6 & 7 year old children. Quite frankly I didn’t want to think for one split second about the terror felt by the children, it is too close to home for me, it's too close to home for all of us... Their ...
Breathe....

Getting ready this morning, my hands shook so badly I accidentally shaved off my beard. Looking like a muscle built French painter, I gritted my teeth, angry with myself for not being more calm. I repeat the manta, “Keep it together WiL; you can’t let Barb know how scared you are”. Because today ...